- Message From Jerry
DEAR FRIENDS.
Welcome to the new web page of
Club Jerry. I hope that you all will enjoy it. Our attempt is to provide you
with as much up to date information about the activities of the club on a
current basis and to make it as interactive as possible. Many thanks is owed to
Greg Biltz, his wife Patricia and their friends, you will be able to get a view
on what takes place here in the club. We will try to show you daily activities,
special feasts and events, outdoor trips to the canyon Nacapuli, to the
beautiful beaches of San Carlos, to some of the kids team sports events. We certainly
will fill and renew our photo gallery frequently. We will try to keep you
abreast of many events that take place at the club.
The Club Jerry deals with more
than providing a place for boys and girls. Our youth who come on a daily basis
are a very special group of young adolescents who love to serve their neighbor
and to help anyone in need. Our young men 18 to 23 years are
a very special group. They
are available at a moments notice eager to help out.
We are also interested in
developing a special Catholic middle school (grades 7, 8 and 9) for our
adolescents as that is the age when they are so entertained with
the mundane bombardment of the sub-culture that after six months in the public
school, they are disoriented and destroyed. What a
tragedy!
There are many other programs
that we would like to develop and inform you of but we will keep that for
another page. For now, I wish to thank you all for your constant prayers and
support.
May God Bless you always, Jerry.
-
Club Jerry I.A.P. Charter
Adopted June 22, 2003
Table of Contents. 3
Who is the founder of Club Jerry?. 4
The Mission
of Club Jerry. 5
The
Philosophy of Club Jerry. 5
The
Objectives of Club Jerry. 6
Promoting Values Within Club Jerry. 6
Club Jerry Promoting Self-Esteem.. 8
Club Jerry Promoting Respect 8
Club Jerry Promoting Discipline. 9
The Levels of the Club.. 10
Level One: The Life Skills
Moderator 10
Level Two: The Board of
Directors. 10
Level Three: Employees. 11
Level Four: The Volunteers. 11
Level Five: The Benefactors. 11
The Vision.. 12
Club Jerry, I. A. P.
As a non-profit organization, Club Jerry focuses on
social service in the state of Sonora, Mexico. Since 1993, Club Jerry has successfully provided a structured,
caring environment that has kept children in school and out of gangs in the
Punta Arena barrio of Guaymas. The philosophical approach utilized in dealing with the children demands
respect for self and others, so that a peaceful resolve can prevent
aggression. The club has developed
a special way of providing direction, discipline, and fairness to all. Club Jerry has been so successful that
other neighborhoods throughout the city of Guaymas have asked for their own
Club Jerry. The other neighborhoods are seeing how this organization has transformed its
committed members into people who are working for the improvement of their lives,
homes, families, and community.
Jerry
Donovan, the founder of Club Jerry, I.A.P., was born in Ontario, Canada, where
he first felt his calling to the vocation of missionary work. He began his work in Mexico in 1984, and in
Guaymas in 1991. While working in his
carpentry shop, children would come to him asking if they could borrow his
skates. It was then that he saw the
strong need for a place that the wandering youth could go to find retreat from
the violent and aggressive
environment. He felt a strong need to
give direction to these children, and since 1993 has served the people of
Guaymas, thus fulfilling his vocation he had always been called to do. The reason why this club has been so
successful is because of his commitment and consistency in dealing with the
youth. Seen to many as a father figure,
Jerry uses his natural instinct for human nature to provide a unique
environment with strong Christian values that are an example to the children
who partake in it.
The
mission of Club Jerry is to reach out
to elementary children, adolescents, and
young adults
joy, security, trust, and peace.
Dignity, nobility, self-esteem, respect, discipline,
order, responsibility, commitment, motivation.
What do you have when a person is taught these things? A leader!
- Jerry Donovan
The club provides a place of security where children
can escape from other parts of their lives that prevent them from just being
children. In todays society, children
that are plagued with absentee parents, drug and alcohol addictions, and
poverty can find refuge in the club's structured environment. Educational activities are provided, by
which the children learn to be wholesome human beings within their play. Lifelong connections are made in this
nurturing atmosphere, leading to a promising future for them, their surrounding
neighborhoods, and future generations.
The
mission of Club Jerry will be accomplished through promoting four simple core
characteristics: values,
self-esteem, respect, and discipline.
Values
are promoted within the daily routine of the Club for all three age
groups. It is simple, but very
consistent and structured, which is exactly what the children need.
The Elementary Level:
1. The club opens in the afternoon for the children of
ages 7 through 11, around 2 pm. The first children to arrive have the responsibility
to clean and sweep the club or do whatever needs to be done in order to take
care of their club.
2. The life skills moderator signs each child in,
officially greets and welcomes them, and then informs the new children of the
rules. This is one of the key elements
of the Club, because the moderator personally knows every member of the
club. This moderator is present
everyday to greet the children with a handshake, thus stressing the importance
of salutation in the Mexican society and providing the consistency that is
essential in every child's life.
3. Throughout the afternoon, certain times are
established for certain activities, such as skating from opening until 4:30,
and soccer from 4:30 to closing.
4. As the children choose their games to play, they formulate
the habit of asking before they begin. A notebook is at hand to keep track of what the children have borrowed
from the club, mainly items like basketballs, skates and skateboards. This teaches the children manners and
responsibility.
5. At 5:30, all of the children are called, and by one
simple call "Noticias" (news) they all come running, to an end of the day
meeting. Here the children are informed
of any announcements, and a select few are chosen to clean up.
6. The children that are not cleaning form two lines (a girls' line and a boys' line) and exit
the club in an orderly fashion. As they exit, the moderator shakes hands with each child, and they bless each other. It is at this point that it is easy to see
how much the children love coming to Jerry's Club. Some will actually get back in line for a second handshake.
The Adolescents:
1. From 7:00 pm to 9:30 pm, boys and girls from ages 12
to 16 come to socialize in the safe environment of the club. It is very important for this age group to
also have a place to belong, aside from the younger children.
2. The routine is very much the same as during the day,
except the atmosphere is a little more relaxed. This group is older and can handle a few more privileges. For example, borrowed items are not written
down, but the adolescents are still taught to ask if they may use the club's
materials, promoting responsibility.
3. Among this group of young teens, a group of young
men have formed Los Comprometidos, "The Committed Ones". This group has partaken in the activities
within the club and has committed themselves to giving back to the community
what they have received. This support group
guides and strengthens them to follow and use Christian values in their daily
lives. They meet every Saturday at the
club to do community services. It is
this group that is a perfect example of the club's growth, and the direction in
which it is going. Due to Club Jerry,
these young men have received development in their lives that will enable them
to go out and touch the lives of others.
The Young Adults:
1. The young adults are the former elementary children
and adolescents of the club. Contact is
kept with this group through the Internet Cafe that has been established, and
leadership activity roles.
2. It is within the club's vision that one day Club
Jerry will be able to provide scholarship programs, develop specified job skills,
and career opportunities for these committed individuals.
It
takes confidence in one's self when striving to overcome the violence, drug
addiction, and poverty in an environment, and this self-esteem is exactly what
Club Jerry provides for its youth. The
members of the club are good people, and the Club supplies them with
opportunity to prove their integrity.Through enrichment, education, and participation, the delinquent youth
are changed into respectable members of the community. Activities that they would otherwise not
have the chance to participate in, such as mountain climbing, provide the youth
with the fortitude to overcome the crises within their own lives. This self-confidence trickles into their
home environments and affects the community on a greater scale, because the
children want to be good
children, not because they have to be. The qualities instilled by Club Jerry aid children in learning to
appreciate themselves, their emotions, and to be more sensitive so that they
will grow into wholesome adults who will pass on these values to their own
children.
Respect
for self and others are largely encouraged character qualities, which are
included within the rules and expectations of the club. The guidelines laid out by the club are
simple, but what makes the system unique is that there are clear and logical
reasons why every rule is made. Making rules and stressing consistency in a structured and secured
environment creates respect in multiple ways. This is exemplified in the following rules.
·
Every member shakes
hands and greets the moderator upon entrance to the club so that, the
importance of salutation can be met, along with providing consistency that is
essential in every child's life.
·
Every member is taught
to ask the moderator's permission before getting out games, skates,
skateboards, etc, so that a shared respect and trust can be had between the
adults and the children.
·
All games and activities
should be picked up after being played with, because it is every member's duty
to help take care of their club.
·
Every day, each child
can borrow the skates, skateboards, and basketballs once, so that every person
wanting to play can have a turn.
·
There is no swearing,
name calling, lying, stealing, kicking, hitting, or fighting, because every
member of the club is a person and they deserve respect.
·
There are no drugs of
any kind allowed in the club, because the importance of self-respect is vital to
one's well-being and lifelong success.
It
is important to teach the youth discipline so that good mannerisms will develop
into habits. In doing so, a
psychological approach is taken when disciplinary action is needed. It is clearly understood that when the
children act out in unacceptable ways, they are essentially expressing emotions
that are concentrated feelings of anger and fear. It becomes the club's responsibility to channel the emotions by
reprimanding the children for their lack of respect for self and others,
physical violence, drug abuse, or verbal abuse. The child is shown that their negative actions promote negative
consequences, such as being suspended from a specific game, or from the club if
necessary, for a reasonable amount of time. The children are able to resume their play after they are willing to
talk about their offense, which is a rule that develops communication, problem
solving skills, and reconciliation. By
following the rules of the club, self-discipline, respect, and responsibility
are learned, and a sense of belonging is created. The consistency of discipline by club leaders is important
because the children learn to control their bodies and emotions, thus resulting
in lifelong self-discipline.
As
the first club moderator, Jerry Donovan has set a model example of how to
facilitate the club activities. The purpose
of this position is to educate the children on the life skills that they do not
receive in their home environments. Teaching manners, sharing, obedience, and patience helps to create noble
and dignified leaders of the community. This position at Club Jerry is not just a job, but like any other
educator's field, it is a vocation. Commitment is the first and foremost quality that future moderators must
encompass.
The children who attend the club are looking
for a stable environment and where
they can play without the fear of being abandoned. A deep love for the children and youth is also a vital quality
for future moderators to have, so that the genuine spirit of the club can
continue and be established in all future clubs. This love is shown by being sensitive to the children's needs
and observant of their behaviors and emotions.
The
ability to recognize a child's anger and fear being expressed in other ways is
a gift that not all of us are given.
All life skills moderators must be trained to utilize psychology,
because without this, it is impossible for any person to take responsibility
for Club Jerry's future. Under the
psychological approach, each child is looked at as an individual; a person
with problems all of his or her own. Through the simple solution of PLAY, children are able to vent out their
anger and heal themselves in a comfortable environment. The core values of the club enable the
children to channel their anger so that their suppressed emotions can be dealt
with in a positive, rather than negative, manner.
Once
each month, the thirteen members on the board of directors meet to discuss the
legalities of Club Jerry. Aside from running the club legally, the board also forms subcommittees
to provide programs for volunteers, fundraising, and future Club Jerry
growth.
At
the present time, no employees are hired through Club Jerry. As the club is rapidly growing, however, the
need for assistance is at hand. The
employees will one day be hired by the Life Skills Moderator to assist him or
her with activities, supervision, and to help facilitate and coordinate
volunteer activities. Aside from
assistants, the Life Skills Moderator will also be responsible for hiring a
maintenance staff, sports moderator, a special
events coordinator, an office administrator for bookkeeping, as well as other
Life Skills
Moderators for newly developing clubs. These employees will be trained at the central offices and then sent out
to their designated clubs.
A
volunteer program has been set up in which single persons or groups can
participate in activities with the children.The volunteers are encouraged to provide their own activities, but a
book of games is provided through the club in which they choose an
activity. As the club grows, more
volunteers will be needed to organize extracurricular activities within the
community, such as sports teams.
Club
Jerry depends on its generous benefactors for support in helping the club to
run and progress. Donations are always
welcome, in any form – be it money, clothes, toys, etc. Club Jerry is a Mexican non-profit
organization, and requires a variety of help.
The
employees and volunteers are people who are able to give time and talent to the
club, but people who are willing to donate monetarily are also absolutely
necessary.
"It is more than just a place... It
is life. " - Jerry Donovan
The
majority of the children that Club Jerry serves are raised in a conflictive and
violent environment,
where they have learned to survive by utilizing aggression. The vision of the
club is to teach elementary boys and girls, adolescents, and youth that there
is an alternative to their angry lifestyles, where one can grow and develop in
a peaceful and joyful environment. The
club is a place where the seed of love is implanted, and the children are the
carriers of peace into their own neighborhoods, where they themselves will
transform their own environment into a peaceful, respectful community.
Eventually
the parents and elders who are touched by the children will also find
themselves becoming involved in Club Jerry's activities. Parenting classes and enrichment programs
will be established in order to reach the older branch of the community, so
that every age group of the society can reap the benefits of Club Jerry's
presence. After the current club has
reached its full potential, then new clubs will begin to develop throughout
Guaymas, and even onto other parts of Latin America. There is no other organization like this south of the United
States, and what the club will accomplish in the third world will be amazing. To carry out this vision, it will take many
years, and possibly decades, but through patience and prayer, Club Jerry's
vision will be achieved in good time.
Work in progress for the
charter:
Policies and procedures
·
Rules - actions and
consequences
·
Daily routine,
detailed
·
Pedagogy